Don't want to work?

If you fly to the office with happiness and are ready to move mountains for the sake of lovely boss, that means that you are one of those 30 percents ladies which are happy on their work. But rest of all, unfortunately, go there with fear before next rebuke or just without any optimism.

What does work give us? Resources for living and possibility for self improvement, and for showing own ability and talents. However, queue of both this components is not obvious. Obvious another thing – in order to make work give you pleasure and happiness, interested motives and moral satisfaction are needed in right parts. Even of one of those characteristics results that you trudge at work place dismally, sitting "from bell to bell", and, in general, pass half of your life without pleasure. What leads to fault and how to escape such things?

I think it is not necessary to tell that scantly fee for the incommensurably bigger physical or intellectual work inevitably excites sicken. Negative emotions are guaranteed in case when profession chosen by you doesn't meet your inside requirements and demand. Even a well paid can't reconcile with a necessary from day to day do unlikely things for a long time. But there are more ulterior reason because of which even lovely work can turn out of happiness.

Sense of guilt to your people around you. Good if treat with understanding your devotion to lovely work. But, if not? If you constantly must hear blames because of scantly attention to children, husband, old people. You owe to all, owe and owe ones more, but want to give yourself up to lovely work. What to do?

If you don't want to dissolve in other people, it is important to understand, what exactly you need. If you are anxious working, you can't say "no" for benefit of someone. That's why as soon as all, encroaching on your care and attention, start to demand from you to leave a job, don't hurry to agree with them and don't suffers yourself out.

Remember: if you don't satisfy own ambitions you just don't have a wish to help to anyone. Just say to people around you, that you don't intend to discuss question about dismissal, and your hold your own you position.

Don't want to work?? Tiredness doesn't promote love. Sometimes work becomes a burden because of constant overwork. Sees and feelings in dark colors, on the background of chronicle tiredness. Way out is obvious – to rest. But if, coming from vocation, you load beyond one's strength to yourself again, after some time everything will repeated. In what way it can't been allowed overwork? It's enough to organize a right an own time.

"Eisenhower's principle", which was build on two criteria: importance and urgency, can help you in this. In accordance with this principle firstly you need to define for yourself important and urgent tasks simultaneously and execute their immediately. After, goes important business but not very urgent. They can turned over to someone else. This helps you to diminish own loading. If nobody can do this job, it is necessary to do everything on your own. Then – very important business but urgent. Try to deliver those, who will be able to manage them. And look over other attentively – maybe it is "fuss sticks it all"?

Do not over-estimate a "human factor". One of most widely reasons of absences happiness on a work – bad relationship with colleagues, boss or people. You with pleasure came working place, while… someone who didn't, irritating you appear, in a department.

The reason of the unfolded relations can be any: different characters, different points of view, misunderstanding, competition or desire of colleague or chief to work out for your account the personal problems. All of this traumatize, keep people in permanent effort and hurt. But you must realize, what find that quite haven, where all love each other and support, extremely difficult. That's why let's look, in what case can change own behavior, in oared that physically communicate with colleagues and not to come home with the load of negative emotions.

The main mistake, that we make at work and because of which we suffer after, – is a substitution of working relationships by personal. We expect from colleges understanding, respect and love. And when it's not working, come disappointment.

If you mark similar moods in yourself, try to escape from unnecessary expectations, promptly and remember main reason you stay at work. Take a rule – at work I am work, but not sort out one's relationship. Remember, that boss – is not dad, but colleges – are not sisters and brothers. It is people which have the interests and duties. And if their interests do not coincide with your, it is not yet an occasion to go away to deep depression or lose work. It's better to direct in working channel this energy, which spend for experience. In this case you will be much less vulnerable and for envious persons, and for offenders, and for "harmful" chiefs.

I want on work, does not it? List of reasons, from which people do not feel comfort at work, it is possible to continue and farther. But under any conditions there is one universal advice: if you have feeling, that your work – it negative emotions mostly, make an attempt give a glance on a situation from other point of view. From Which? Well, for example, look on all of it more globally. It is possibly, against a background your life's aims all problems at work seems just small mouse fuss, which doesn't cost that, from it to experience and spend time on it.

Not succeeded? Anyway situation with work press and traumatize mind? Then – go away. And not share about anything. Eventually, last years have bring to us not only complications with a device on work but also new, real possibilities to find employment like.

A risk is justified, because correctly said Chekhov once: "Who tested pleasure of creation, for that all of other pleasures do not exist already".